according to psychology, when someone knows they treated u wrong, they avoid u. it's called guilty conscience. they don't have the maturity to apologise for their actions, n bc they lack accountability, they just remove themselves from ur life instead. if u needed to hear this, maybe this account is for u.
Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. Likes And eventually, the bill comes due.
unfortunately i'm a person who takes words very seriously, so yes i'll remember every little thing you've said about me, whether it's good or bad; it will stay in my mind for a very long time.
Because moving on is rarely instant.
You can stop talking to someone and still wonder about them every day. After sharing your time, emotions, routines and vulnerability with someone, it’s hard for the brain to suddenly act like they no longer exist.
Sometimes people stalk because they miss them.
Sometimes it’s ego.
Sometimes they want to see if the other person moved on first.
And sometimes they’re just trying to understand how someone who once cared so much became a stranger overnight.
Bc sometimes loving someone also means accepting that you cannot force them to love you correctly, choose you fully, or become who you need them to be. Letting go becomes the final act of love bc it prioritizes peace over possession