Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. Please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men that are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self-control.
If I'm dating you & you ever decide you gone cheat on me, there literally aint no amount of "I love you, I'm sorry" that can erase or fix the fact that you looked at my worth, weighed it against your urge & picked the urge to cheat. Cheating is NOT a mistake, it's a whole decision. A deliberate, SELFISH one that you made while knowing exactly who it would hurt.
NONS*XUAL DOMINANCE IS SO <3 having someone choose for you? placing a hand on your back? pulling you closer in crowded areas? fixing your hair when you didnt know it was messy? holding your hand to guide you through crowds? telling you when you should eat/go to bed? god tier
princess treatment isn't when he buys you expensive gifts. It's when he never lets you go to sleep upset, listens to you, is soft with you, respects you, and changes his actions when it hurts you.
Any idiot can have sex. But can you make a woman feel safe? Comfortable? Appreciated? Adored? Can you support her at her worst? No? Then stay the fuck away from her.
No woman wants to be in a position in her life where she has to teach a man how she wants to be treated and how she deserves to be treated.
She wants a man who already understands these concepts and demonstrate them via his actions
Cheating isn’t always about crossing physical boundaries... sometimes it starts in ways people try to downplay or excuse. It’s those “small” actions that chip away at trust until the relationship no longer feels safe.
If you’re texting someone you know your partner wouldn’t be comfortable with... that’s cheating. If you’re clearing your browsing history because you don’t want them to see what you’ve been looking at... that’s cheating too. If you’re entertaining conversations with someone who isn’t your partner, flirting with them, or even adding strangers on social media just because you find them attractive... that is also cheating.
Cheating is not just about what you do physically. It’s about secrecy, disloyalty, and divided attention. It’s about choosing to invest energy into someone outside your relationship while your partner is left questioning your loyalty. When you cross these lines, no matter how “harmless” you think it may be, you’re already betraying the foundation of trust.
And if you’ve already seen these patterns in your relationship, take it seriously. They rarely stop on their own... they often grow into bigger betrayals, leaving deeper wounds. Protecting your peace means recognizing red flags before they destroy everything you’ve been trying to build.
The truth is, you cannot build a strong and lasting kingdom with someone who still craves attention from the village. Love requires loyalty, discipline, and respect... anything less is just selfishness disguised as connection.
I run a VERY Strict Program !
Nonchalant? BLOCKED
Disappear for hours? BLOCKED
Still texting your ex? BLOCKED
No reassurance? BLOCKED
Toxic? BLOCKED
Lying? BLOCKED
Not romantic? BLOCKED
Manipulative? BLOCKED
All mouth, no action? BLOCKED