i wish i was naturally pretty, like ... no makeup and flawless skin kind of pretty, naturally sk1nny kind of pretty, whatever i wear looks great kind of pretty ... i don't wanna try hard to look decent but still knowing so well that my own standards for myself are set up high
developing an ed as an overweight person is interesting because you will watch in real time as your life rapidly improves and people start treating you better all while ur literally losing ur mind & falling apart
A Muslim *kindly* telling another Muslim that something is haram is not them "judging you". It's them encouraging you to do better because we will be held accountable for every move we make. We are obligated to spread what's good and forbid what's haram
fear of abandonment and hyper independence are linked. the idea of becoming emotionally attached to someone (bc of the potential pain of them leaving) is so scary, the brain combats this closeness by triggering us to isolate when shown care and refuse help when requiring support