Acts of service men are dangerously attractive.
Fixing problems, making sure you’ve eaten, charging your phone, carrying your things… that’s romance to me.
Ngl in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you're innocent in the story you created
y’all are so obsessed with finding a man .. girl go study, find a better job, find a skin care regimin, tweak your resume, increase your credit, get that degree, pay off your car, build your savings, travel, live a little, but keep your priorities straight ! life is not all about a man . take care of you !