I need your help guys .
I’m having my first Solo exhibition opening in Lagos today and I don’t have anyone coming to view it yet , please if you are in Lagos , kindly come see my art , it’s free entry. I hope this blows up 🙏🏽❤️
Let break down this “not all men” stuff for you people
Out of 10 men in a room, one cracks a sexual joke.
Two of them actually find it funny.
Three of them don’t find it funny but chuckle just to fit in.
Four of them don’t find it funny but don’t say anything.
None of them says, “stop, that’s actually disturbing”.
Later, 9 men go back home believing they’re part of the good majority, unlike the man who cracked the sexual joke. But from a woman’s perspective, there isn’t much difference between the people who laughed, the people who laughed just to fit in and the people who said nothing.
All three do the same thing. They keep the room safe for the men who cross the line. And that’s the part “not all men” doesn’t address.
Women aren’t always saying that all men harass, but what we are saying is that a lot of good, polite men end up protecting the system where harassment feels low risk.
I understand why men resist this framing, but doing nothing is not the same as doing no harm, when the environment itself is what enables thr harm. The least you guys can do for women is to SPEAK UP.
It’s the same thing going on with this raping festival, some men wouldn’t participate but they wouldn’t stop the men that are participating.
But since they’re not part of the majority, they think they’re the “good” ones, when all they’re doing is protecting the system that keeps failing women.
“Respect our tradition.” “It’s our culture.”
This is 2026. Deltans, if your ‘culture’ involves sexually assaulting women cos they went outside, it’s not ‘culture’, it’s abuse. Fuck your culture.
So many facets of our cultures are ROTTEN to the cure. Barbaric and rotten. Hiding behind culture to sexually assault and harass women ought to be the deepest of abominations but here we are. I am so disgusted
I don’t even want context or an explanation about what the culture is. If the punishment for being outside when you’re not meant to or breaking a rule is sexual assault, may you all burn in hell
This should be a national discussion, it must spark outrage. It’s unacceptable.
Everyone involved must be arrested and jailed for life.
We cannot keep quiet!
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Children experience the internet very differently from us. Most platforms are built to grow and generate profit, child safety only comes first when it’s a core value.
That’s why boundaries and supervision with kids is crucial. That responsibility hasn’t changed. It’s still ours.
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