Muslim men, do not get married until you:
Fix your salah.
Get rid of any addiction you have.
Heal your wounds.
Control your lust.
Build structure in your life.
Learn the deen.
Be the spouse you want. If you want a spouse that lowers their gaze, lower your gaze. If you want a spouse that dresses modestly, dress modest. If you want a spouse that prioritizes deen, prioritize deen. You attract what you give off.
In every situation, you need Allah. in ease and hardship, in joy and sorrow. In happiness and sadness, we always depend on Him because He is the One who never leaves us.