Kids are naturally loving creatures. Until we teach them hate and homo/transphobia.
That’s why if you’re homophobic or transphobic, you sometimes need to ask yourself what the world is teaching you for holding such hate to a wonderful community. ✨
So, this happens as a result of the tenderness *he* consistently shows her. She is, in true feminine nature, reflecting and responding to the tone he has set for the relationship.
Women want to be loved and cherished. Deep down, a woman in love is the young woman sitting on the metaphorical front step waiting in anticipation for the man she loves to return. This is the posture of her heart. She waits for him and responds with enthusiasm *because* he has demonstrated care for her outside of this moment and because he consistently reciprocates love and enthusiasm when they’re reunited.
Harshness feels like rejection to a woman. If he spends a week acting grumpy or annoyed with her when she greets him, she will take that as a sign that he doesn’t want her love. She will begin to withdraw, confused, and things will start to unravel.
Rightly ordered feminity is driven by the impulse to love and nurture. If she is prevented from properly existing in the feminine, she will wither.
I heard a therapist say, “Your feelings are always valid, your behavior is not.” She explained by saying feel what you feel BUT you need to be accountable for what you do as a result of those feelings.
I found a guy who goes around the US asking 70 to 100-year-olds their:
• Biggest Regrets
• Biggest Lessons
• Advice to their younger self
Oddly enough, most of their answers are the same…
Here are my top 8: