Being with my grandmother and taking her to appointments has made one thing very very evident; aging, although inevitable, seems to spring up on people. It seems like one day, you wake up and canât do X anymore. Itâs something that people hate and itâs actually so sad.
So Shamea sleeping with the neighbor George⊠the entire Atlanta hawks⊠her manager⊠and now a pastor?
Like it gets to a point where shit just donât make sense.
Porsha Vs Shamea | UNPOPULAR OPINION
ive loved Porsha this entire season, but i genuinely dont understand how so many ppl are missing the game sheâs playing.
Porsha is playing reality TELEVISION.
while Shamea is playing REAL life.
i actually understand why Porsha didnât want Shamea on #RHOA. Porsha basically made it known OFF CAMERA that this was HER thing & if Shamea came on here & overshadowed her, the friendship was essentially over. thatâs like being the star employee at your company for 15 years, then your spouse or bestie gets hired into your department doing the exact same job. now every promotion, every compliment, every award, every opportunity is automatically being compared between the two of you. thatâs a different kind of pressure than supporting somebody from a completely different field. & lets not act like fans wasnt LIVING for Shamea them first few eps & s16 wasnt centered & marketed arnd HER friendships. HUGE blow to Porshaâs ego, someone whose not use to playing the supportive best friend.
the irony, however, is overshadowing has literally been Porshaâs M.O. for years.
this is the same woman who rushed to get pregnant to overshadow her own sisterâs pregnancy, to skipping Shameaâs wedding w a bullshit excuse, to lying on Kandi multiple times, to whooping Jamie in an alley, to stealing that ladyâs husband, to how she treated her own cousin Lonnie⊠Porsha BEEN Williams.
so the friendship fell apart the moment SHE felt what she normally dishes out.
& hereâs where tv experience comes inâŠ
Porsha first expressed how she felt OFF CAMERA. then her ON CAMERA actions reflected that distance.
Shamea, on the other hand, experienced the rejection OFF CAMERA, felt the tension ON CAMERA, and then VENTED about it off camera but it was brought up ON CAMERA w the rest of the cast. Strike One.
thatâs the difference.
the audience got to SEE Shameaâs hurt.
they didnât get to SEE Porsha create it.
so naturally Shamea becomes âobsessed,â âbitter,â and âcanât let it go,â while Porsha gets to keep her hands clean because sheâs a 15-year reality TV veteran who knows exactly how to hide her hand and stay publicly PC.
then it gets even more unfair.
Porsha and Shamea spent last season tag-teaming people together. now Porsha has made up with damn near everybody they were beefing with (for tv, to keep the show moving)⊠but Shamea is STILL left carrying those fractured relationships because SHE took on all of Porshaâs beefs trying to prove loyalty. Strike two.
from Shameaâs perspective, imagine watching your best friend make peace with everyone except YOU. of course thereâs resentment. of course thereâs no closure.
now add interviews into it.
interviewers let Porsha talk about whatever she wants because she has 15 years of Housewives history. Shamea is just a small chapter in Porshaâs reality TV journey.
Shamea doesnât have that luxury.
for 15 years sheâs been known as âPorshaâs best friend,â and for the last two seasons their friendship HAS BEEN her primary storyline.
so of course every interviewer asks her about Porsha. Strike Three.
then people turn around and say, âwhy does Shamea always talk about Porsha?â
because thatâs LITERALLY what sheâs being asked about, and because the friendship never actually got resolved for HER.
thatâs why i keep sayingâŠ
Porsha is playing reality TV.
Shamea is playing real life.
and when one person understands the assignment of reality television while the other is still looking for real life closure, the person playing the game almost always comes out looking cleaner.
all this debate & chatter when ultimately Porsha & Shamea were just two City Girls with a SURFACE friendship who bonded over being outside & hoeing.
The Real JT & Caresha.
and now that thatâs over , please let this be a lesson to all the girls to never settle or take disrespect from a bum ass nigga cause another richer , smarter, and kinder one is on the way reciting japanese philosophy and all
wait why would lizzo ass send a video like she wasnât popping it about melanie and aniya this season. donât come on here with all that fake shit! #loveislandUSA
carl telling aniya he understood why she chose to continue exploring kc & reassuring her that he doesnât hold any resentment towards her for that decisionâŠtheyâre going to do sooooo fucking well outside of this villa. this is a man.