it’s always rlly interesting to me how anime gets less and less progressive and boundary pushing as time goes by bc tell me why utena criticized this very ill mindset all the way back in 1997 and here we are now trying to bring back “feminized and fixed by meeting the right guy”
so close! this IS a perverted fantasy.
You don’t want a disabled girlfriend, you want the pats on the back from yourself and others for being such a hero for taking care of someone like us. You want someone to be hopelessly dependent on you even when they don’t want to be.