nobody talks about the angry stage of healing. the rage you feel when you realize how much and how long you were taken advantage of. the absolute disgust you feel towards those people that mislead you. it comes in waves. sometimes you'll feel healed and then it suddenly hits you.
Communication is key" but so is a sense of understanding. If I tell you something and you're not willing to see where I'm coming from, then what's the point of telling you anything.
if u offer me a sincere apology & change ur behavior, I'll never bring up our past issues again. But if no apology was given and ur still repeating mistakes, u can't ask me to stop mentioning the past. The "past" is actually the present if u haven't changed.
Not even an apology can undo how certain people made me feel. Some damage ain't about words, it's about patterns, disrespect, and seeing people for who they really are.
It’s really selfish to enter someone’s life, see that they’re a loving, cheerful and good person and decide to ruin their peace because you haven’t dealt with your own issues.