its fucked up how getting exposed to porn at a young age spiritually molests you and gives you the same mental symptoms as someone who was physically molested as a child
@theorehtical Feet fetish usually isnt from trauma its like the same reason someone would like armpits or breasts they can just look aesthetically appealing sometimes. At times humiliation kink can be apart of it though
I’m a psychologist, and I’ll say it without sugarcoating it:
The constant desire to talk everything out with people who hurt you isn’t maturity, it’s an attempt to save a bond where you’re not safe.