Azmat A. A.

Verbal Telekinesis
#Black
Festina Lènte
Sic Parvis Magna

[The Shift Journal @TheShiftJournal]

Dostoevsky is right, your worst sin is, in fact, destroying and betraying myself for nothing.

[سيدة @Ajoke__xx]

Somewhere in your 20s or 30s you’ll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop, heal from what broke you, live in your own space, reconnect with your discipline, and learn to love yourself again. It’s very important that you see that journey through.

[Asma @Elaa_ampe5]

You're not as important as you think. The world doesn't stop when you're hurting, and people don't think about you as much as you imagine. Everyone is busy fighting their own battles. Life goes on, time keeps moving, and no matter what happens, the world keeps turning..

[𝕾𝖎𝖗 𝕮𝖍𝖗𝖎𝖘 @eagleseyeinc]

staying single when you know you can’t provide is one of the smartest decisions you can make as a man.

i know a lot of guys want love, they want to have a woman to talk to, someone to care for and maybe build something with but building your future and a relationship at the same time is hard, it’s really hard.

most men lose focus cos they’re spending their time, money and energy on the wrong things instead of using them to build their future.

then they get stressed and upset, wondering why they not seeing positive or significant results. that is why staying single for now is not a punishment but wisdom. don’t worry, you’re not missing out, lol

look, the same way you wouldn’t invite a person into a building with a poor foundation is the same way you shouldn’t bring a woman into your life when your foundation isn’t solid. a woman worth loving deserves to walk into something stable not into a construction site and be asked to help you figure out the blueprint.

so my friend, use this season to build your character, income, career, discipline and your relationship with God. build a life that is ready for her before she arrives, become the kind of man who is ready to handle what love brings, not someone who is simply hungry for it.

[FULFULDE. ™️ @isah_muaaz]

I’m not demeaning Hausa women, but before you marry one, make sure she knows how to control her mouth when she’s angry.

They can be very disrespectful at times and, honestly, some of them lack manners in the way they speak during arguments.

Kana mijinsu amma Idan suka fadama wani magana Allah sai ka fashe da kuka.

[Cousin Stizz @CousinStizz]

Everyday I become a man of fewer words

[H’s mom @aiishadahir]

Dear Muslims,
Normalize wanting to be wealthy so you can give more zakaat, more sadaqah, sponsor education, not show off.

[L E S E D I @_Hybreed_]

I don't care how hard life gets, don’t tell a woman what you’ve been through.

[Kharis @kharis_micheal]

When she starts becoming mean, it’s time to leave.

[Oyindamola🙄 @dammiedammie35]

Let me tell you something guys, try get yourself a car, sacrifice that weed, club and everyday alcohol money, say No to as much billing as you can and save as much as you can to get yourself a car. Having a car is a very good feeling.

[ً @artfuIchaos]

I’ve started appreciating days where nothing dramatic happens. no bad news, no stressful interactions, no overwhelming thoughts. just a normal, quiet day where everything is calm. those are the days that actually feel like rest.

[Edwin Nganyi @EdwinNgany]

When the giver becomes broke , the receiver says the giver did not plan his life well when he had money.

[Veloria 🌊 @veloriahq]

“𝘞𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘭 '𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘳𝘴'. 𝘞𝘦 𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘴 𝘸𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘫𝘶𝘥𝘨𝘦 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘴 𝘸𝘦 𝘤𝘢𝘯'𝘵 𝘢𝘤𝘤𝘦𝘱𝘵.”

— 𝘚𝘩𝘢𝘮𝘴 𝘛𝘢𝘣𝘳𝘪𝘻𝘪

[jonzing. @ehisssss]

don't hold things back, say that you're angry, say that you're jealous, say that you made a mistake, say that you're missing them, say that you like the person, just say something..

ego destroys relationships.

[Dre @DreDrexcii]

If we date, don’t stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

y'all gone burn so many bridges with the good people in your life fronting & treating them as if they never been there for you. People have different views on " staying down until one comes up " I done stayed down in so many situations when in so many situations I got left, used & mistreated! But everybody not built like me, I never been the type to switch up, act funny, down talk or use someone!!! If I fuck with you, I fuck with you. It's never for what you got or what you don't have, because if it's meant to have, at the end of the day we gone get it.

[Kharis @kharis_micheal]

A woman can cry over losing you and still not change a single thing that made her lose you.

[Mr Sergio @samson_samsen]

Did you know that one of the most efficient ways of getting the best out of a woman, and out of a relationship with one, is by being nonchalant?

Whatever women generally agree to hate in men is often what you should be if you want the best from them.

The reason women say they hate nonchalant men is because nonchalance reminds them that they must be on their best behaviour around such men. And women do not want to be on their best behaviour. They want to lovey-dovey their way out of the consequences of their bad behaviour.

Nonchalant men provide no such emotional leverage. As the men do not care enough about her to even fear losing. And that automatically makes her dispensable. So she either has to come correct, maintain order, or leave.

Often, it is difficult for her to leave because of the trade-offs, because of what she stands to lose. So she will crash out, complain about your nonchalance, and attempt to get you emotionally attached, invested, and consumed, so that she can misbehave and get away with it.

Nonchalance is how you foster order in an otherwise chaotic species. It is how you maintain order and, consequently, receive effort in a relationship with a woman.

When you are nonchalant, you send a clear message that the relationship is not based on emotions alone, but on something more structural and stable - something that equally requires reasoning and orderliness from her to function.

However, you must know:
Women complaining about your nonchalance is not necessarily because they hate you, but because they love you and cannot guarantee how long they can remain well-behaved before they slip and risk losing you.

She fears losing you because, through your nonchalance, you have made it clear that you will pull the plug if she crosses lines she should not have crossed. And women, in their nature, cannot help but want to test boundaries.

If you are “chalant,” she senses emotional leverage over you.

And you know what that brings?

A woman's worst behaviour.

Goodluck. Or congratulations.

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

sometimes even an apology can't fix what happened because the real issue isn't the mistake, it's the part of your character that allowed you to do it in the first place. and you can't apologize for character