This is actually true. My phantom ideal is a woman that's kind, loving, loyal and understanding and that's completely unattainable. Because of that, I gave up on dating because no woman is gonna meet my standards
2. Their Phantom Ideal
A fantasy partner who doesn’t actually exist. This person is calm, undemanding, endlessly understanding, and conveniently, completely unattainable.
It’s a story the avoidant tells themselves to justify emotional distance:
“I just haven’t met the right person yet.”
But the “right person” is really the one who never challenges them to feel, grow, or be vulnerable.
“Don’t worry, you’ll find someone someday.”
Maybe I will. Maybe I won’t. But the loneliness I feel is very real right now. And the reality is I don’t have someone to hold me, to love me. Being hopeful for a partner in the future doesn’t negate my desire for companionship now. My feelings are valid.
And if you’re feeling the same way, yours are valid too.
A decade of propaganda later, woketards are not even an INCH closer to replacing Gamers:
God of War Laufey Reveal: Only 351K views, 12K likes, 13K dislikes after 5 days
Stellar Blade: BLOOD RAIN Reveal: 1.1M views, 64K likes, ONLY 757 dislikes after only 2 days
Gamers WON
You need a homeboy to take her out of the equation. Or you be that homeboy and take one for the team. Make her feel beautiful and she'll forget about her friend. Easy.