Breakups hurt, yeah. But you know what hurts even more? Staying. Staying and trying to “make it work” with someone who has shown you over and over that they don’t value you, don’t prioritize you, and don’t care about your feelings. Begging for bare minimum. Hoping they’ll change. Ignoring the proof right in front of you. That kind of pain drags out way longer than a breakup ever could. Sometimes the real heartbreak isn’t losing them it’s realizing you stayed too long trying to convince someone to love you the right way. THAT’S what really hurts.
If you don't want to bang your husband's brains out, something is fundamentally BROKEN in your relationship.
The answer is not to, as this woman seems to suggest, normalize periods of celibacy within a marriage.
White people have been fighting for black people since slavery, and they gave their lives to end slavery when they didn’t even start it. The least I can do is fight for them too. We have to End Racism Against White People Too.
Love Beyond Color
Sex is an absolute necessity for men in marriage. But the issue is not just sex itself. It’s how it is given.
Men don’t want to beg for it. They want to feel wanted. They want to feel chosen, not like they are forcing it or always asking.
In a healthy marriage, both people should desire each other. It should not feel like one person is chasing while the other is avoiding.
When that balance is missing, there’s frustration, distance, and even anger with time.
So yes, sex is an absolute necessity. But beyond that, men want to feel wanted, respected, and close to their partner. When that is there, things work better. When it is not, the marriage starts to break down.
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HOW TO LOSE A HUSBAND:
Set high expectations on him
Point out his faults often
Become quarrelsome and contentious
Desire to control and manipulate him
Deprive him sexually
Refuse to fix food for him
Demand he help with housework
Don't keep home clean and tidy
Let yourself go physically
Complain about him to others
Expect him to meet your emotional needs
Stop laughing at his jokes
Never smile at him
Have no desire to please him
Insist on being right and having the last word
Trapping a man within a sexless marriage isn't just cruel... in my mind it is criminal. You are stealing the man's life from one he could have with another woman who actually loves him. The right and moral thing when you no longer want to serve as a wife is to leave.
“But Sikh’s HAVE to carry a kirpan, it’s not negotiable…”
Go home then.
“But Muslim women have to cover their faces, it’s not negotiable…”
GO HOME THEN.
“But we have to slaughter animals in this cruel barbaric way, if we can’t…”
GO. HOME. THEN.
DO IT SOMEWHERE ELSE.
Never Do In Relationship
1. Never talk anything about the ex or past.
2. Never talk or do something that makes them feel uncomfortable.
3. Never make them feel restricted.
4. Never doubt them.
If they are into you really, they will never cheat on you.
5. Never make them feel like a partner they can't share anything with.
First, be a great friend before a partner.
6. Never compare them with your ex or someone else.
Everyone is unique.
7. Never get angry at them and even if you get, try to self-control and divert your mind.
Some unknown actions of yours can destroy the whole relationship.
8. Never use abusive words for them or their family or friends.
Remember, your words are like a sword. Think before you speak.
And so it comes to pass that we are finally put out of our misery, on the last game of season, and perhaps worst of all, at the expense of Tottenham staying up.
Yes, it hurts. It's probably the worst feeling you can experience as a football fan. Some of us have been through it and out the other end, and for some of us this is the first time.
If there is one huge positive to come out of this utterly dreadful season, then without question, it is us, the fans. We have come a very, very long way since a small group of us got together in 2022. This year in particular, we have exploded into action, and none of it would have been possible without the commitment given and the belief shown by so many people in this group. Truly, thank you to everyone who has helped us to get to where we are.
We have brought friendships together.
We have shown some much needed community spirit.
We have created the pre-match concourse (which was absolutely insane today by the way).
We have self organised our fan-made flags, adding some character and visual atmosphere to the stadium.
We have funded and organised a tifo tribute to Ludo, one of our greatest West Ham heroes of all time.
We have trialled vocal sections in the ground.
And we won't be stopping here. In fact, we're just getting started.
As well as the positives of having no VAR, no tourists, less commerialism, winning more (hopefully), and a whole year without having to listen to Gary Neville, a season in the championship gives this group a huge opportunity to organise ourselves properly and become a permanent fixture in a stadium that so badly needs something.
Once the dust has settled, we will turn our attention towards planning for next season. We encourage anyone who wants to be surrounded by likeminded vocal fans to relocate to 142 - 147.
Again, thank you everyone for believing in the IWA project. Enjoy your summers, and the further World cup disappointment with England..
We build from the bottom, and rise to the top. ⚒️
"Lovers & Leavers"
Most lovers & leavers are great communicators. Real lovers. Givers. Kind, & patient to a fault.
They’ll take their time to explain, teach you their love language, express their emotions, make you feel the deepest love you’ve ever experienced, & still remain patient while waiting for you to reciprocate.
It almost feels like a fairy tale, however the love is soaked in realism.
Most times, the partners of "Lovers & Leavers" take that love for granted. They become complacent, believing their partner could never leave no matter how poorly they’re treated.
But with time, patience starts waning. Emotional distance starts breeding. The effort fades silently. Then one day, they take the exit door with utmost quietness.
That’s usually when the other partner suddenly wants to "fix things."
Unfortunately, by then, the damage has already settled deep.
Learn, fix up, love your partner properly. Learn their love language. Emotional starvation is soul wrecking, yet so many people treat it like it’s harmless.
Oh no, say something about Sullivan and you get someone from the hunt family saying something. We'll here goes:
Fuck David Sullivan the pedophile sex offender cunt.
This relegation is on you, you absolute piece of shit. Sell up and fuck off