Rodiyyah Olayiwola-Raji.
One of the fiercest woman I've ever met. A proper feminine feminist and a leader of women. Led tons of girl-child projects across Ibadan and doing the actual work those days.
Not all these faux feminists on Twitter NG.
She's not only brilliant but firm and savvy. "Official wife" I donned her as we served together on many platforms and I'm glad our paths crossed.
A top woman she is. May Allah continue to bless her for me, keep the peace of her house and uphold her upon goodness. ฤmฤซn.
a friend of mine asked a woman out after talking with her for weeks. she smiled and said...
no, iโm not really interested like that, sorry bout that. 10 yrs ago, he might have tried again and again, i mean like the literal sending of flowers, gifts, money, planning something thoughtful or making bigger efforts that used to be seen as romantic..
instead he just nodded and said... ok, donโt worry and he never asked again. could you believe that months later, she told a mutual friend that she was surprised he gave up so quickly? lol, the quiet shift most people havenโt noticed yet is that a lott of men arenโt less interested anymore, theyโre just more cautious with the woman they trade with.
for a very long time, men were taught that persistence showed confidence and genuine interest
but today that same persistence can easily be misunderstood as pressure or ignoring boundaries. so many men adapted by keeping things simple: express interest once, respect the response then move on not because they care any less now but because effort feels more worthwhile when the interest and energy are clearly reciprocated.
Most women cannot afford it... They can barely take care of themselves without Involving a man... So how can they take care of multiple men?
It's only when it comes to sleeping around u want to compete with men... Can you spend like the men are doing?