If people complain because you don’t “put in effort” they’re probably right but the reasoning behind why you don’t feel the need to anymore is what’s really important.
ur allowed to not wanna put up w someones bullshit anymore, ur allowed to cut off half assed love/friendships/relationships, ur allowed to put urself first and not keep allowing ppl to take from u what they wont give back
please don’t be searching for people to feel bad for you when you’re plenty guilty of making others feel like shit daily. You get what you give & maybe it’s time for an attitude adjustment.
me: ....idk i just think i’m scared of commitment because pushing people away is easier than getting my heart broken
the kids i’m babysitting: ok but it’s midnight are you gonna feed us supper