My mother would make sure that when dad came home, there was "lunch" waiting. Even if he comes home at 7 pm, he will get "lunch" before supper. Why? "Many men work hard during the day and 90% forego lunch just to work. When they come home and find a meal, it is the best feeling ever." She said. And that has always been stuck in my mind. Your man shouldn't come hungry, hasn't eaten the whole day because he was working, and he goes to the nearest kibanda just to get something as he waits for supper. Khabusie!