I will never understand people who don’t want a relationship with you or to take your seriously but then get so angry when they discover someone else is giving you the opposite energy. Like you didn’t want me?? What’s the issue??
you gotta know who your friends are & i think it’s very important to set expectations in your friendships. if you know you prefer constant contact, then someone that goes MIA may be triggering. if you prefer to go off grid, then be around others that have that flow or communicate
It is absolutely horrid to think my child is falling through the cracks of this shitty system where judges and social workers do not care. Where "they won't take the word of a three year old".
What is absolutely insane to me is that no matter what, the mother is always the "bitter drama babymama". It would not matter if she has a partner or is in a healthy loving relationship. They always see her that way simply because she wants what's best for her child.
What would you do if your child came to you saying she's being tied up, hit hard for peeing the bed at night, and coming back with pink eye not once but twice and not being taken to the hospital? Her face swollen from the pink eye not being taken care of at all. A
Before lowering your frequency to argue with people who are committed to misunderstand you, look at their lifestyle, and how life treats them. That is enough punishment. If it costs your peace, it's too expensive. Keep your vibe high and let life be their educator.
If you only ever listen to one piece of advice from me let it be this:
Be careful who you have kids with.
Read that again. And again.
Today was the final confirmation that Nic wants absolutely nothing to do with the family we created. 2 weeks ago I received a knock at my door.
It hurts my heart when I come across people who are ashamed of their situation….Your credit is in the 500s? You must’ve been through some things. It’ll get back up. You’re broke? Been there. You don’t have a car? You will eventually. LIFE HAPPENS and we all go through stuff.
I always heard "women are so emotional" growing up but like men will slaughter their whole family because their wives ask for a divorce instead of simply leaving and managing their emotions??
it’s not even inflation at this point, it’s just fucking price gouging because our government refuses to stop sucking corporate dick at the expense of 330 million people. they do not work for us
can we stop the narrative of if the girl has no friends stay away from her..?? Some people genuinely don’t have friends bc of social anxiety, bc of genuinely bad people always gravitating towards to them, bc of other circumstances.
Daycares: we’re going to get your kid sick. & once your kid is sick they can’t come here. But you still have to pay. Also, we’re going to close for all holidays and weather events and you still pay. Sound good?
i believe dates and traditional courting should come before anything else. the art of someone having to prove themselves worthy of your trust and affection and time is so deeply lost.