@TaraBull We adopted a son with disabilities (not DS but others). We did this intentionally. He's 38 now. We have never regretted the decision. K*lling children because of disabilities is no different than k*lling "healthy" children.
Coffee is tricky. Like cigars. Organic products are like that. With coffee: the coffee maker, the water, bean quality, roasting method, country of origin. For me, a Cuisinart machine, filtered water, and @goldstarcoffee beans. The more varieties you try will help you find your flavor profile.