Just told Ben I always rip out and leave a single strand of hair in every taxi I get in so it could potentially be used as evidence if anything were to happen and he couldn’t believe it . On today’s episode of things I do as a woman that I’ve never thought twice about :
I’m not afraid of him going through my phone to see if I cheat, because I don’t. I’m afraid of him going through my phone and finding all the crying selfies I send to my friends.
When you realise that your abandonment issues also made you kinda toxic & drawn to avoidant partners/relationships, so when somebody shows genuine & mutual interest, you begin to feel uncomfortable.