It always beats my brain that Nigeria has a dedicated national programme & budget to fund the rehabilitation of terrorists but has nothing dedicated for the victims of the terrorists who are traumatized for life.
My position on argumentation is often sourced from a phrase I read in a Japanese book:
'Always remember that to argue, and win, is to break down the reality of the person you are arguing against. It is painful to lose your reality, so be kind, even if you are right.'
They are raping their house-help, I hope that helps.
Sex with a person who cannot say no because you are their employer and can stop their source of income, and you are their only housing in a city far away from home is RAPE‼️‼️‼️
As a woman, one of my deepest darkest desires is to be completely useless to men. You know when they say women over 30 are expired; childfree women are selfish; ugly, fat, old women are unfuckable. I dream of being that level of useless to men. Because that's when they'll finally leave you alone.
I made the observation that many male centered women are not the fatherless ones but the ones with fathers 🙂↔️ And they learn how to center men courtesy of how their fathers treated their mothers growing up
If men had truly loved women, history would tell a different story.
You don't love someone.
while denying them freedom, education, bodily autonomy, and a voice.
If someone at work tries to micromanage you, micromanage them back.
Send them too much feedback, ask them a lot of questions, do follow ups when they go quiet or even when you know they are busy don’t let them rest.
Between Pelicot, Epstein, the so-called “rape academy,” Andrew Tate, and what has long been tolerated elsewhere, I wonder how long it will take to communicate that this kind of networked, scaled, systematized sexual abuse of women by men is not an exception but a norm.
One of the most overlooked forms of wealth is having complete ownership of your time.
Waking up and knowing nothing about your day will be decided by someone else is priceless.
My boyfriend has never baked before. Sent him a list of everything I needed to bake and he came with everything correct (right brands sef) without having to call me and act dumb.
Say no to weaponized incompetence ✊🏾