And I’m not say every man knows how to do those things and I don’t doubt that it’s a lot pressure, but at that point it’s up to them to do that self work. Educate yourself, find a mentor, go to therapy, learn yourself, talk to God etc.
Trusting in a partner is way deeper than “cheating”. Like let’s be honest most women would stay after their partner cheats, but when they can’t trust you to lead, make decisions and provide… its a wrap rather they know it or not.