“Why are we afraid of the first time? Every day in life is a first time. Every morning is new. We never live the same day twice. We're never afraid of getting up every morning. Why?”
something so powerful about trying to take down a black woman with 13 qualifications and has earned every single thing she owns, trying through merciless means, losing against her in court, and there is documented proof. Prof Anele, you have no idea how much you mean to me.
every time you say “this is new for me” instead of “i’m bad at this,” you allow your brain space to learn instead of shut down. that’s neuroplasticity in real time.
Anyway guys community comes at a cost. People come at a cost. Relationships are not self-sustaining entities, you need to invest your time, effort and energy into them if you want them to be worth anything.
my top 5 female heartbreaks
1. my dad
2. losing that one friendship
3. realizing that it wasn't forever
4. trying to figure out if it was sa or not ?
5. not being able to just express how i feel because it's hard
EVERYTHING needs effort.
Good relationships don’t just fall from the sky, you must put effort. Making food needs effort. For you to be happy? You must make the effort. To clean requires effort. To make money ifuna i-effort. To be healthy, you must make effort.