Ignoring a pattern because you like the person is like ignoring a leak because you like the ceiling.
The ceiling is genuinely beautiful.
It's also coming down.
Even when you’re angry, on those difficult nights, always leave each other one small way back.
A hand on the shoulder, blanket pulled over them, a quiet, “Goodnight.”
Not because the argument is over nor you were wrong.
But because the relationship matters more than winning the argument.
You can be angry with your partner without making them feel unloved.🤷♂️
Dear young woman, let me tell you this.
After the first time you have sex with a man, pay attention to how he behaves afterwards.
Sex can reveal sides of a person that you may not have seen before. You may notice changes in his communication, affection, effort, attitude, or even the way he treats you.
Some men become more attached after sex. Others suddenly become distant. Some become more caring, while others lose interest because what they wanted was simply the sexual experience.
This is why you should not only listen to what a man says before sex. Watch what he does after sex.
The real test is not how much attention he gives you when he wants you. It is how he treats you when he has already gotten what he wanted.
Sex does not magically change a man’s character. Sometimes, it simply reveals it.🤷♂️