Change your language to “what if it does work out.” Believe in possibilities. Think of the best case scenario. Retraining your mind will lift you higher out of the overthinking, stress, and worry of negative habitual thoughts. Change starts with your mindset. Shift it. Switch it.
I just realized how someone can do so much for you, but when they aren’t speaking directly to your love language - its so easy to feel like it’s nothing.
@_xoxosaav Don’t wash it for a few weeks & then tell him you need your hair done or else it’ll look this way forever & he has to be seen in public with your hair lookin crazy 😂
Honestly the biggest ick i have is that in this point in time it’s being put out there that men deserve to have peace when they come home & have breakfast lunch & dinner made for them. That makes sense if they are the sole provider of the family. But when they are with a woman-
Don’t date if you are this way. Heal first before you wreck someone else’s life for your own train wreck of a life you chose not to get help for. It’s not possible to love someone when you don’t love yourself & notice when you’re acting out of line & why. No one is responsible
if you’re date someone with depression, anxiety, ptsd etc, you have to make sure you are their safe home. Beware for the crying over small things, getting upset or angry over little things, over thinking, or not being able to sleep or go out. Don’t date them if you can’t handle it
You should never have to walk on eggshells because of someone else’s trauma that has absolutely nothing to do with you. That’s why it’s important to get the help you need so you don’t drag someone else down into a life that they don’t deserve to be in & doesn’t deserve the
But can’t offer emotional support for the partner that is doing everything for them. They’re too wrapped up in their life to notice that their partner is drowning but they are expected to be strong for the man in their lives.
Slack that the other one drops. If the woman is caring for a child & a man & has multiple jobs? When does she have time for herself? It goes both ways. But honestly I’ve noticed more so that men are expecting their significant other to do all of these for them
If you feel like you've been through childhood trauma and have a lot of confusing emotions but you don't remember traumatic events...
This might be why:
guys where should i go for my birthday? i want to be by the water (very blue clear water to be exact), i want to get as much sun as possible, and i just want to relax n be pretty.
island/beach town recommendations plssssssssss