A piece of advice for men and women
- TO THE MEN,
1. Do not marry a feminist.
2. Avoid single mothers.
3. Avoid court weddings. Do a traditional wedding, a white wedding, or both. Never set foot in court for it.
4. Marriage is an achievement, but it is first a responsibility. Refuse the 50/50 mindset. Be a provider. Provide for your family even if your wife never works a day.
5. Marry a woman who respects you, loves God, and has shame.
- TO THE WOMEN,
1. If you are not certain you want that man for life, do not let pregnancy push you into marrying him.
2. You are not equal to your man. The women who hold real power over their husbands are the ones who submit. The ones who demand equality and fight for headship lose it.
3. No man is polygamous by nature. If you cannot live with a cheater, ignore anyone who tells you otherwise. You can choose to tolerate it, but be ready to tolerate it forever. Once a man cheats and you forgive him, he will cheat again.
4. Go to school. Graduate. Gain knowledge. Seek God. Stay respectful. Use your education to improve yourself, not as a weapon against men. Men are not your enemies.
5. Get married before 30. If you are already past 30, fix your character, become more feminine, and when you find a man, never disrespect him and never cheat on him. He will marry you fast.
Above all, love God.
This is the Channels Television interview where @elrufai spoke in detail about payment of compensation to FULANI HERDSMEN.
The reason and context were clear and unambiguous.
Those who have twisted it to mean payment to bandits or the usual line and lie that he "admitted to paying bandits on national television" to suite their narrative and agenda are free to continue but facts and records don't lie.
When we spread the truth, it not for applause or that those who love lies will repent. It is just what it is - truth.
That's why I don't bother responding to ignorance and mischief. Truth stands on its own and will always over take lies no matter how far and long lies travel.
Oya, twist this too!
Yesterday, Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria posted on Twitter that Nigerians can now export cow bones duty-free to China.
Under the comment sections, some Nigerians were asking the ambassador to tell them what they are using the cow bones for😁
Some were telling the ambassador to tell his people to come and setup the processing facility here in Nigeria, so they can create jobs.
Funny people. I laughed at our inability to do simple Google search.
As a livestock farmer and Agro commodities trader, I already know the uses of cow bones.
And about building a factory here in Nigeria? Nigerians are the ones to do it, but sadly everyone is building hotels😁
Let me tell you a few uses of cow bones.
Here are 4 major uses of cow bones you can mention in your content;
✍🏻Bone meal fertilizer: Cow bones are processed into bone meal, rich in phosphorus and calcium, used to improve soil fertility.
They prefer this to fertilize their soil not the chemical sold to our rural farmers.
✍🏻Animal feed supplement: Processed bone meal can be used as a mineral supplement in livestock feed, especially for calcium and phosphorus.
We use this for chicken feed, pig, and fish feed production.
Verify the price per kg and you’ll be shocked.
✍🏻Gelatin production: Cow bones can be processed to extract gelatin, used in food, pharmaceuticals, capsules, and cosmetics.
Just imagine the volume of cow bones wasting in your village?
Pharmaceuticals companies are paying billions of dollars to buy it from those processing it.
And I believe those Chinese companies will focus more on this.
It is big money wasting away in Africa because we don’t know anything about value addition.
✍🏻Activated carbon / bone char: Burnt bones can produce bone char, used in filtration, sugar refining, and water purification.
Pause here and think deeply with me. They use bone char for water purification in their country.
But they produce capsules and sell to us for water purification😳
Let’s not blame them. We take responsibility.
Now, let’s be honest. This is a golden opportunity for us. Let’s export the cow bones and cash out.
Also, let’s learn how to process the cow bones locally and export the finish product too.
If I tell you now that chicken feed producers in Nigeria import bone meal, you won’t believe. Research it yourself.
A ton of bone meal is around $200 - $750 currently.
Bro, just imagine earning over $200 from wastage thrown around our local markets in Africa.
Business opportunity for you. Do your research and see how you can position to serve this market
Muslims on my TL should save and watch this video every time you’re feeling down.
The part I found most striking is where he said:
“You’ll run just like animals run in the wild and you will still not get more than what I originally allocated to you.”
I saw a post about prenup, where the maker said a woman should insist on including “infidelity clause” where anybody who cheats loses 50% of their assets to the other. No man in his sane mind should oppose that.
Instead, a man should also make sure that DNA testing on the kids is made compulsory in the prenup. Include also that if at any point the DNA tests comes out negative, the man will be entitled to recover every single penny spent on the child, from pregnancy till birth when the DNA test would be conducted.
He is her husband as much as he is hers and alhamdullilah the wife is a woman of knowledge and she understands this.
There is no such thing as position in marriage. A wife is a wife.
Why do you think polygamy is really tough for Muslim women? If you like, start with him from the trenches and he goes on to become a billionaire, you all have equal rights to his inheritance, except for what he gives you in his lifetime.
In the early 1990s, Taiwo Oyedele was applying to study Accounting in OAU, scoring circa 220 in JAMB, not given admission into Accounting but given courses like Estate Management and Economics Education.
He rejected them. Accounting or nothing.
He then went to study Accounting, his dream course, in Polytechnic.
Today, FIRS chair, a first class graduate of Accounting in OAU that he didn't get admission into, reports to him as Finance Minister.
From being an OAU reject to being the boss of the best of OAU.
Lesson
-Don't let rejection by a school (or any entity) be the end of your ambition.