When things seem to not work the way you want or they seem too hard, always seek accountability from yourself first.
Why is this not working?
What more can I learn?
How can I do things differently?
What am I doing wrong?
I’m not ruling out that spiritual bondages exist but, have you spent more time working towards the life you want instead of pointing fingers?
You’ll see people who are spending more time fighting haters and enemies instead of working on themselves.
The worst thing you can do to yourself is to always believe that others are responsible for your predicament.
“They stole my destiny, They exchanged my glory, Things are not working because they bewitched me!”
Honey, when will you start being accountable to yourself?
People rarely talk about how expensive eating clean is.
Carbonated drinks are cheaper than smoothies.
Unstrained Yoghurt is cheaper than Greek Yoghurt.
What about Fresh foods over junks?
Love is beautiful, I’m not going to lie but it’s not the whole circle.
This is why a lot of women feel like their whole lives are over after a break up.
A relationship with a man should be part of your life and not everything.
A few weeks back I was taking feedback on my content and I spoke to a lot of my female friends (20s/30s) on their struggles with personal growth. To spice things up *😉* I decided to ask one of my male friends and what he said shocked me >>>>>
You speak on dating/love and you see the response compared to things that makes us as women a better version of ourselves.
The problem with this is that seeing love as primary and other aspects of your life as secondary can get you into a lot of trouble as a woman.
Did you know that you can speak to a therapist for free via 08008002000. No airtime or payment whatsoever. It’s a call line sponsored by SAFE SPACE NG.
Normalize suggesting professionals to your friends when they are struggling consistently with their mental health.
5. Stop trying to control life. We can set goals all we want and plan but at the end of the day, there’s only so much we can control in life. Whenever you make it is your own time.
5. Take short breaks while working and mini acts of self care within the week. This could be skin care, talking to someone you love, seeing a movie or reading a fun book.