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Dolly Parton forever ❤️

“You are enough. And anyone who tells you otherwise isn’t worth your time.”

[🦋 @leftunsents]

my final act of love won't be a hundred missed calls or endless messages. It will be the silence you always seemed to want.

i won't beg for your time, your replies, or your effort anymore. I'll quietly step back and let you feel the space where my love once lived.
That silence isn't anger, it's me finally choosing my peace over proving my worth.

And if you ever notice my absence, know that it wasn't easy. I stayed longer than ! should have. But loving you was never meant to cost me myselt, so I chose to let go, quietly.

[D. @Lush_Beauty1]

I’m in my 30s, and I no longer have the emotional capacity to beg anyone to stay in my life. Whether it’s family, a relationship, or a friendship, I won’t force anyone to choose me. If you want to leave, I’ll let you. My peace is worth more than chasing people who have already decided to walk away.

[❥✾ᥴꫝﺃ @chi_never_shy]

I don’t want my daughter to be like me. I want her to speak up sooner. Walk away faster. Trust herself deeper. Apologize less. Take up more space. Ask bigger questions. Dream louder. And if that means she becomes everything I wasnt… GOOD!

[Nithya Shri @Nithya_Shrii]

Losing someone that didn’t want to learn how to love you wasn’t a loss btw.

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

i deserve a calm relationship that's good for my mental health, heart, and nervous system. a lover who's my bestie, my safe space, and soothes my soul during stressful situations. Life is tough enough, i deserve someone who brings me peace, not problems.

[PeePee🎀 @peegzy1]

You ever notice how some people don’t apologize? They just act normal again and expect you to forget.

[Solyricon @Solyricon]

Dear future husband,
Today sucked. I miss you.

Love
Your future wife
P.S. come home already

[𝐘𝐯𝐞𝐬 @thenayvuiiiton]

Unfortunately my favorite coping mechanism is isolation, so yeah i won’t bother you .

[Ous'B 💚 @BongsMahlangu_]

I wanna experience a man loving me so much, that hurting me is unfathomable to him … even when we’re not seeing eye to eye. On our worst days, I’m still the apple of his eye.

[JAY 💞 @Janiee_Jayy]

I apologize to my body for all the times it was touched without love.

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

I’m usually the person that tries to fix bonds and friendships, but lately I’ve been letting people stand on how they feel. We never have to talk again. That’s perfectly fine by me.

[𝐵𝑎𝑏𝑦 𝐾 ❤︎ ⋆ ݁ ⸌̑⸍͂ @misskerrington]

Fuck a break up, have you ever met a person you had a brief but insane connection with and then the universe was like oops wait sorry that wasn’t actually supposed to happen 😭😭