The best time to invest in yourself is when you start dating the wvmån you love. The more love you have for her, the more money you spend in grooming your professional skill or growing your business.
If you invest in yourself, she will love you better and never leave you. If you were føølish to invest in her to make her better than you, she will leave you for someone better.
Don't support her dreams until you have supported your own dreams to the highest level. She will never leave you knowing you are now better than when she met you.
If its her money you must endeavour to borrow the money and invest in your skills or business, if she loves you she will support your dreams. Put yourself first and she will put you first. Unless her father or family is her sponsor, then support her.
Alphaness is about excellence, you must build yourself to inspire her. You have to be the man that she uses to appraise her brothers and other exes. If you leave yourself to invest in a wvmån, she will feel she has become out of your league and leave you.
If you have a BSC and fall in love with a WASCE holder, then get your Masters Degree before you send her for Diploma. If you have a Masters Degree and fall in love with a graduate, get your PhD or get professional certification before you support her Postgraduate studies.
Don't ever bring her to your level with your money or connection. You are the head, lead her. Be ahead.
Womən are biologically wired to follow. If you love yourself more, she will love you more. If you put her first, she will think she is better than you. Make yourself above her league and she will remain submissive and faithful.