It’s a lot easier to enforce your standards by removing yourself from people or situation that violates them. Because Everyone knows exactly what they are doing.
normalize leaving people to avoid empathy burnout. yes, i love you, but i am tired of having to ask you to consider me, and i am tired of you not seeing where you went wrong.
Withholding knowledge or refusing to help because you see people as competition won’t make you any more successful. your blessings are yours and nobody can claim what’s meant for you. share the game, help people grow, there’s enough room for everyone to grow and win.