When I was 22 living in Vegas with my poker buddies we invented a game every time we went out.
If you got REJECTED 5 times by girls you got the night FREE.
All drinks & food was covered by the other guys.
It made getting rejected a positive thing!
You approached unattainable girls because you quickly realized there is no BAD RESULT.
They say no, who cares, you never see them again & get a point.
They say yes, you invite them to join, & have a fun night.
Fear of failure & rejection stops 99% of people.
This was a fun way to completely remove that fear from our lives!!
Highly recommended to young single guys!!
If you even slightly entertain the thought of failure, you give your mind a chance to start noticing reasons to fail. But if the only option on your mind is to win, then the world seems to conspire in your favor, because your mind will notice opportunities it wouldn't have before. Become delusionally optimistic, not because it's realistic, but because it's effective. It drastically increases your chances of success.
JUST STOP CARING
Embarrass yourself. Opinions are irrelevant. They're just side characters. Confidencemaxx. Force yourself to be more social. Approach people daily. Shyness ruins your life. Nothing is that serious. Don't be afraid of rejection. Embrace awkward moments. Radiate charisma.
There's no point in worrying about what others think of you. You cannot control their thought patterns or belief systems.
You can be the most normal person ever, yet someone will always find a reason to talk behind your back, give you a side eye, or make you feel out of place.
But what you CAN control is the perception you have of yourself.
If someone calls you something you're not, why should you care in the first place?
Being social, meeting people, and building strong connections are some of the most valuable investments in life.
You can't afford to treat other people's opinions so seriously and overthink about nothing.
In a time when everybody is glued to their phones, become a person they can't ignore.
Make your presence so memorable that the only reason they reach for their phones is to capture the moments they shared with you.