I wanna talk about this for a second actually. I’ve noticed that whenever saebyeok is looking at jiyeong, her features genuinely seem.. softer, especially during marbles. it’s calmer, more caring, and dare I even say loving.
it's not inherently heteronormative to have a strict preference, it only feels heteronormative when people say shit like "he cant top he's too short/dainty/feminine/some variation of that" and they're dead serious too. or when they act like bottoming is degrading
I wouldnt call it appropriation, but polish and slavic culture in general had been misrepresented by westerners for decades. Harmful stereotypes, intense xenophobia etc
This book is just another pointer that westerners dont care about us, only take what they find attractive +
saying "i feel sorry/bad for you" in polish is so much nicer since in english it sounds so self centred almost while in polish you say "współczuję" which literally translates to "im feeling with you" which is exactly what i mean when i say i feel sorry or bad for someone