Is anyone else ever genuinely shocked when you find out you have an impact on someone's life? A coworker can be like "I've missed seeing you" and I'm just like "???? you?? missed me????? My presence has an effect on your daily experience???? i affect things??? What???"
The reason so many adults with ADHD love background white noise, low-fidelity music, or ambient audio while working isn't for distraction, it's giving the chaotic, wandering 20% of your brain something to play with so the remaining 80% can actually concentrate.
Being able to detect another person's emotional state through behavioral cues rather than direct communication is one of the highest forms of emotional intelligence.
Todos tenemos conductas autodestructivas y la mía siempre será pensar, pensar y pensar TODO EL TIEMPO. Sobreanalizar cada detalle, imaginar lo PEOR siempre y darle vueltas al mismo tema de manera obsesiva. ES DEMASIADO ESTRESANTE.
I’m not meant for someone nonchalant. I love too loudly, i love corny stuff, i love acting goofy, i love deep conversations, i love laughing out loudly, i love hearing about your day, i love compliments and i love knowing you the way no one else does.
i asked my mom, “Do you think I should go back to my ex?” she smiled and said, “If you come across the same tree twice in a forest, you’re not exploring, you’re lost.” That was all the answer I needed.