Sir Marcus

63 yo, real life Dominant male in the BDSM world, been over 20 years in this lifestyle. DM open, I like to chat with fellow kinky people

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@StuartGeor95929 @Schlumpf83 And also ecstatic, I think 😉

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@StuartGeor95929 @Schlumpf83 Glorious and gorgeous...

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@empresslovely69 Some of them might be, but not all 🤪

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@empresslovely69 😮

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@empresslovely69 Lmao 🤣

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@empresslovely69 It depends: do I have someone in my bed or not, is it summer or winter, what is my mood...so many factors.

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@WillHartley1980 Wtf do they mean by "Sigma Doms"? Never heard the term.

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@StuartGeor95929 This is going to be memorable...

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@Yanp1011 👍✌️

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@WillHartley1980 Lol 😂

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@empresslovely69 Lol 😂

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@WillHartley1980 And this is why I could never do this professionally and have clients. I'll keep rolling on my non-professional lane 😊

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@empresslovely69 I smoke and drink 🤪

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@kittencali3 I like these interests

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@empresslovely69 That's funny 😂

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@empresslovely69 I can't speak for other Doms, but I personally don't want a doormat, but someone who's standing for what they believe in and is outspoken, at the same time respects me and defers to me in what we agreed during dynamic's negotiations.

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@WillHartley1980 My go to in such situations is to use a different "safe word" from the actual one. The Dom/Top "suddenly changes" the safe word before a session, while the sub/bottom remembers the old/usual one. This is advanced CNC, beginners should not attempt it.

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@Yanp1011 He's territorial but you're doing it anyways...

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@WillHartley1980 There is a dynamic that entails total relinquishing the control, usually designated as TPE (total power exchange) and mostly expressed as Master/slave relationship, but I don't advise anybody new to start directly with TPE, which is very demanding.

[Sir Marcus @BanjoJim4]

@WillHartley1980 I prefer people who say every now and then "I never did that" or "I have little/no experience with this".