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@Narizyia@misoboring “The op is black” so that immediately erases the ignorance of their statement as if black people who act like coons have put countless of us in danger since the beginning of slavery times
@ElSapphoOfL@sadsadlady_ It’s clear you didn’t watch the movie, people who are mentally ill do need boundaries period. In the movie, he becomes attracted to her before finding out she SH’s and that’s when the more “caregiving” starts to come in and he sets boundaries to keep her mind off of sh
@sadsadlady_ You guys are ignorant, literally women are allowed to enjoy sex on their terms. And some fake feminist twitter user isn’t going to make them stop, it’s not wrong or immoral to participate in kink as a grown adult with consent and boundaries
@sadsadlady_ Because you guys genuinely hate the fact that some women do choose to be submissive and believe that women can only be dom and it’s unthinkable to believe that some mentally ill people need structure in their lives that they can get from their partner
@ElSapphoOfL@sadsadlady_ For you, not for other people. We’re still deserving of love and respect, she’s literally not dependent on him because he holds her accountable but instead of shaming her. He asks her why, their relationship literally has boundaries
@venus_in_adidas@sadsadlady_ No it’s really not, women are allowed to participate in kinks and be submissive without yall controlling them under the guise of “feminism” as a feminist myself, yall genuinely have to stop forcing women into a box of what you believe is correct
@vastmightyfree@sadsadlady_ The movie was literally made and released in the 2000s, it’s sad that you guys can’t seem to understand that women are no monotonous creatures and we do choose things
@vastmightyfree@sadsadlady_ No they usually don’t, you see a women in a submissive relationship which she fully gave her consent and you immediately scream misogyny but it’s completely okay for a man to do it?
@vastmightyfree@sadsadlady_ It up as “feminism” because you want to control women but that doesn’t make your argument valid just because you don’t like the movie
@vastmightyfree@sadsadlady_ Other women should also be allowed to speak their opinions and as a woman myself, the movie is perfectly fine especially coming from someone in the same mindset as the women in the movie. We don’t all have to agree on a movie but don’t try to manipulate women’s choices and dress
@vastmightyfree@sadsadlady_ So it’s only okay for men to participate in kink and being submissive but it’s not okay for women to do it because it’s more widely accepted? That’s so backwards, like saying I can’t wear a skirt because it’s widely accepted but a man can bc it’s “different”
@vastmightyfree@sadsadlady_ None of it is romanticized, these are real things that happen. You’re not any less deserving of love because you’re mentally ill or have different appeals. I never see you guys do this to men who wear puppy mask or women who are dominate. It’s always something with you guys
@vastmightyfree@sadsadlady_ That doesn’t mean that nobody is allowed to do bdsm because other people have bad experiences, you cannot use feminism as a weapon against women who make choices you don’t agree with because at the end of the day it’s patriarchy to assume women can be controlled