someone said "if you don't let people experience the consequences of their actions towards u, you will remain a safe place for their worst behavior" and I couldn't agree more
nobody talks about the angry stage of healing. the rage you feel when you realize how much and how long you were taken advantage of. the absolute disgust you feel towards those people that mislead you. it comes in waves. sometimes you'll feel healed and then it suddenly hits you.
I ain’t stressing over nothing I can’t control anymore. If something doesn’t work out, somebody walks away, or a situation keeps going left, I’m not losing sleep trying to make it go my way. I done learned everything I want ain’t always meant for me. Sometimes the best thing you can do is accept what happened and keep living. What’s really for me won’t require me to stress myself trying to keep it.
Girl, let him go back to the low-effort love he’s used to. He doesn’t want a woman who expects growth, effort, and accountability. He wants someone to feed his ego and accept the bare minimum. That woman is not you.🥹❤️🎀
people will do you so dirty and have the nerve to question why you're not interested in being around them anymore. baby, you don't provide me any peace, i can't trust you, i can't have my guard down around you, etc. like why would i want to keep you around?
Sometimes a man understands exactly what you’re asking for, he just doesn’t care enough to give it to you. Women will spend years over explaining the same hurt thinking eventually he’ll get it, whole time he heard you the first time. Eventually you gotta stop begging somebody to treat you right and start asking yourself why you’re fighting so hard to stay somewhere you’re clearly not valued.