As a man, you are expected to;
Always be sure of yourself,
Always be confident,
Always have a plan,
Always be able to protect,
Always be able to provide,
Always be strong.
The truth is, if you want to be accepted by the majority of people, you MUST fulfill these obligations.
But this is the part that people miss.
The majority of people you meet in life do not care about you.
They view you as an asset, not as an actual person.
And why would anyone want an asset that doesnât do its job?
This is the reason why most people will cut you off when you start to struggle.
Why most partners will leave you when you show weakness.
Why most friends wonât bother checking in on you when they know youâre having a rough time.
But this is where I say fuck them.
You donât have to always be strong just to keep around âfriendsâ who never cared about YOU anyways.
You donât have to keep up the illusion that everything is alright so your âpartnerâ wonât go around looking for a new guy.
Because at the end of the day, if theyâre willing to leave when things arenât perfect,
They were never a friend.
And they were never a partner.
They were just someone who was willing to kill time with you.
Have moments of weakness.
Be open about your struggles.
Tell those around you whatâs REALLY going on in your head.
Because at the end of the day, we only have one life to live,
And thereâs no point in putting on a show that leaves us mentally destroyed just for the acceptance of people who donât actually care about you.
Just because youâre willing to show weakness doesnât mean youâre weak.
In fact, it shows strength.
Strength that you love yourself enough that youâre not willing to hide behind a mask just for acceptance.
To be able to accept oneself and show the world who He really is, regardless of the consequences he will face;
This is what it means to be a man.
A message to all my haters;
At the end of the day, Iâm a man with one mission and one mission only.
To make people laugh.
No matter how people might perceive me afterwards, I will always sacrifice my âimageâ if it means I can make even one personâs day better with a crazy tweet / tiktok / clip.
This is what separates me from all the people that are too obsessed with what others think of them.
And itâs why they hate me.
I was, am, and will always be someone who prioritizes the entertainment value of my content over whatever âserious imageâ I want brands and other creators to have of me.
Iâm not here because people care what I think.
Iâm not here because people think Iâm some kind of moral pinnacle.
Iâm here to make people laugh, and I fully embrace that.
So go, make your tweets attacking me.
Say all the nasty things that you think you believe deep down.
Because at the end of the day, all it takes is one look in the mirror to realize that youâre a worse version of a human being than you could ever believe I am to be.
Iâm not the one attacking others for likes.
Iâm not the one subtweeting about people I dislike for months.
My message was never, and never will be about tearing others down for your own gain.
Itâs about bringing yourself up to being the best version of yourself you could possibly be.
Iâm just a guy doing my own thing and trying to make other peopleâs days better.
And if you hate that,
Then I wish you all the best.
Youâll need it.
In the last 2 years Iâve cried 3 times.
Two years ago When my grandpa died.
A year ago When I got cheated on.
And tonight, when I lost my 3rd League game in a row.
Never forget though.
To be rebuilt stronger than ever,
One must first be broken.
@Yaminaa_a The only thing I dream about is the grind.
A girl can wake up one morning and tell you she doesnât love you anymore.
She can leave you.
She can hurt you.
The grind?
The grind will always be there.
Can you hear them..?
For a while, I didnât.
I didnât hear them and thought that things were better.
I thought I was safe.
I thought I was over it.
I thought I was free.
It turns out they never leftâŠ
They were only sleeping.
The Voices are back.
Daily reminder that you are not enough.
You have not reached your true potential,
You have not been hitting the gym hard enough.
You have not been working enough.
You are not high elo enough.
Insecurity is good
Only through insecurity can you find the motivation to prosper