@babydianxia You can be trans and straight. Non binary and straight. And I’m pretty sure straight women thinks they’re « allies » and they’re magically part of the community so it doesn’t mean anything. Plus it doesn’t erase any problems around fetishizing of gay men.
this is why a part of me wants to gatekeep queer media from straight people bcs wtf is this??? the comments are also too comfortable expressing their homophobia even as "bl fans"
@tamaka37293 But you never see this with straight people. Why ? Because of homophobia. Straight people prefer reading a story thats isn’t « too gay ». That’s the reality of it.
“Homophobia is rooted in misogyny” is supposed to illuminate how gay men are not beneficiaries of patriarchy since their manhood is invalidated by their sexual orientation.
It is NOT supposed to give straight women a pass to hetsplain homophobia to actual queer people.
@CielandBL@userbambi Hmm yeah sure like thats the problem. 🙄 And I’m sure you enjoy seeing women get raped in fiction too right ? And it’s also completely okay ?