Sometimes I wake up & have to remind myself: “There is nothing wrong with me. I have patterns to unlearn, new behaviors to embody & wounds to heal. But there is nothing wrong with the core of me & who I am. I am unlearning generations of harm and remembering love. It takes time.”
Remember this:
There is nothing wrong with you. You have patterns to unlearn, new behaviors to embody and wounds to heal. But there is nothing wrong with the core of you and who you are. You are unlearning generations of harm and remembering love. You got this. It takes time. 💛
Being loved by an awakened woman requires a deep level of honesty with yourself, you gotta be able to look at yourself in the mirror and be willing to accept flaws and behavior that's not allowing you to raise to her vibration, self evaluation is difficult but it's necessary.
Nervous systems heal in slowness. If you are putting the same pressures on yourself to heal that you put on yourself in your dysregulated life, your nervous system will remain dysregulated. Softeness and safety cannot be present where there is urgency and pressure.
In 2011 Steve Jobs died at the age of 56 from pancreatic cancer, leaving a fortune of 7 billion dollars, these are some of his last words...
“At this moment, lying in bed, sick and remembering my whole life, I realize that all the recognition and wealth I have is meaningless in the face of imminent death. I have the money to hire the best at any task, but it is not possible to hire someone to carry my disease. Money can get you all kinds of material things, but there is one thing you can't buy: "LIFE".
As I got older, I realized that a $300 watch and a $3,000,000 watch show the same time. That with a $50,000 car and a $15,000,000 car, we can reach the same destination. That a wine of $150 or one of $1500, generate the same "hangover." That in a house of 300 square meters, or in one of 3000, the loneliness is the same."
"True happiness does not come from material things, it comes from the affection that our loved ones give us."
So, I hope you understand that when you have friends or someone to talk to, that is true happiness!
Five undeniable facts
- Do not educate your children to be rich. Educate them to be happy — so when they grow up, they will know the value of things, not the price.
- Eat your food as medicine, otherwise you must eat medicine as food.
- The one who loves you will never leave you, even if they have 100 reasons to give up. He/She will always find a reason to hold on.
- There is a big difference between human being and being human.
- If you want to go fast, go alone! But if you want to go far, go together.
In whatever stage of life you find yourself now, be grateful and enjoy the little things to the fullest and treasure the Love of your partner, your family and your friends, so that when the day comes when the curtain falls, you can carry with you the true wealth of this world.
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"How do we hold people accountable for wrongdoing and yet at the same time remain in touch with their humanity enough to believe in their capacity to be
transformed?"
—bell hooks
december, close the chapters that don’t speak to my spirit and open up the pages that remind me of who i am. give me the courage to release myself from what i’ve outgrown so i can fit into shoes suited for where my journey is going. balm me in patience and soak my bones in love.
what you need is already taken care of, what you want is already yours. remain in constant flow and stay committed to your growth and what is for you will find its way to you eventually.
to whom this may concern;
the waves have been hard to swim in recently but i’m proud of how you’ve held on regardless, how you’ve persevered through the tides of chaos, how you’ve found sweetness at the end of every battle that has threatened to eat away at your peace.
you deserve growth minded connections;
ones that aren’t rooted in stagnancy when you’ve tried your best to water them, ones that find unconditional joy in your progress instead of envy, connections that encourage your bloom even if they’re personally not where they want to be.
you deserve accountable connections;
ones that hold their hands up when they’ve fallen short and aren’t afraid to reduce the volume on their ego, ones that keep their mouth open even when the medicine tastes bitter, connections mature enough to look at themselves in the mirror.
may you miss the connections that aren’t meant for you, maintain the ones that hold you in ways that make you feel valued, and manifest ones which will speak to you in accents that your heart understands.