I pray I marry a man who actually wants to be married. An honest, hardworking, loving man. I pray he has morals, goals, and boundaries. Even when things get tough between us he won't give up. A man who isn't out here embarrassing the family we created.
I be in my feelings over principles. I’m not ashamed to admit it, I just expect people to be solid and loyal like me so when people aren't, I get offended and take it personal.
I be feeling bad about being on bad terms with people I really love, I be wanting to reach out and fix shit but I just can't do it anymore. People are constantly showing their true colors and i gotta respect it. Sometimes you just gotta wish them well & let them be.
Things I believe in :
-right person wrong time
-drunk words are sober thoughts
-karma is only a problem , when you are
-if they wanted too , they would
-the “I” in front of love you
-pinky promises
-actions speak louder than words
-time heals
Whatever you do, pray for the ability to see your own sins, your own hypocrisy, and your own shortcomings. Never lose sight of that— never get so carried away pointing fingers that you forget you, too, have abscesses that need tending.
I lost all respect for people who saw me breaking and still chose to break me more.. that’s the type of shit that changes you forever. makes you colder, quieter, and careful about who gets close💯
People who go silent when somethings upsets or hurts them, are often experiencing coping mechanism called “Emotional Withdrawal”. It's not that they have nothing to say, it's that their system learned that silence is safer than being misunderstood. Instead of expressing anger or frustration, they hold it in.
a girl on tiktok said "detachment is crazy because you'll still care. still remember their birthday. still hope they're okay. you just stop showing it" and that's real shit.