there’s a point where you have to be honest with yourself about a relationship as a man
not every woman you’re attached to is actually good for you. if being with her constantly drains you, there’s no respect, no support, no peace, no submission and you’re basically carrying the whole thing by yourself...
bro, what exactly are you holding onto?
being emotionally attached to a woman doesn’t automatically mean she’s good for your life.
You broke up with your boyfriend cause he cheated on you, & started peppering him with your new boyfriend that his ex also broke up with cause he cheated on her. The nuance is, you are a younger version of his older ex & your boyfriend is now dating a younger version of you 🤭🤭
The “baddies” lifestyle is something else. When everything is said and done, you only come out with two Coach bags, Gucci slides, three wigs, an iPhone 17—and, if you’re lucky enough, HIV too.
If a man expresses anger, he’s toxic.
If a man expresses fear, he’s a coward.
If a man expresses sadness, he’s weak.
If a man sets boundaries, he’s insecure.
If a man has standards, he’s a misogynist.
If a man expresses emotions, he’s a simp.
If a man shows no emotion, he’s heartless.
In the end do what is right by you, your family, and your creator. Nothing else matters.
• Have a car or borrow your friend's car
• Have a nice apartment or squat with a friend and tell him to act like it's your house
• Post fake lifestyle or flex your guy money on social media
And you can sleep with more than 70% of Nigerian women.
Nigerian women no get levels.
Access is very important to men.
If you like break up, end the friendship or whatever.
They’re not gonna block or delete your contact, oh and they’re sure viewing your status, thanks to the read receipts being off.
They never unfollow or block on social media too.