It was never about anything else but you, your choices, your thoughts, your beliefs & your willingness to adjust as needed. It was always on you, the spotlight. You was born into this world as the star of a whole new world. It was always meant to revolve around you as you bloom.
Please be self-forgiving when you realize you could have made better choices with your words, behaviours or reactions. Most of us do what we do until we're presented with new information and we find new ways to show up. Have self-compassion & keep learning, shifting & rising up.
Staying hydrated and navigating the residue of people-pleasing, codependent, love addiction, emotional abandonment and neglect wounds while also finding solace in emotionally safe connections which prioritizes myself being a safe and sacred space for me all around. Heavy DND NRG
Itโs always so disappointing when you find out bits and pieces of a truth that you gave a mf the benefit of a doubt in over time. Like just throw the whole connection away atp ๐ฎ
Bc now the lesson has been realized and the veil has been lifted. The magic has dissipated and you see there was nothing worth holding onto so tightly or at all in the first place.
Itโs always so disappointing when you find out bits and pieces of a truth that you gave a mf the benefit of a doubt in over time. Like just throw the whole connection away atp ๐ฎ
Got a habit of subconsciously pushing ppl to just speak their truth or inadvertently show their true colors by just being and doing whatโs on my heart, mind and spirit. Grateful for the guidance and protection in the midst of it all.
The end of that relationship is not the end of you. Itโs an opportunity to attract better. Please know that you have the strength to move forward and find happiness again.