@formalcatattire As long as the man does the same, then I personally have no problem doing it for him.
If he’s my peace then I’m his peace, we’re equals not silent enemies.
@escapetcm@theparkwbenson That your possibly between the height range of 5’6-5’8. Those aren’t short at all, and it’s doable. Personally not something I’d reject right off the bat, now if you were an asshole then yes you’d be gone.
@escapetcm@theparkwbenson I sent a text to both of my brothers and asked them what there homegirls thought was short, one replied with 5’1 and she’s 5’9. And the other said 5’3and she is 6’0.
I’m gonna assume based off of what my brother considers to be short, which would be 5’7.
@escapetcm@theparkwbenson Well considering that I’m friends with a lot of Hispanics, there boyfriends are typically there height which is about 5’3-5’5. There parents are both shorter than me too.
I’ve noticed white women typically try for a crazy height difference, but I try not to interact with them.
@escapetcm I wouldn’t want a tall man helping either. That’s why I said if a man offered then sure, but if not I’d handle it myself.
Not sure why your rt’ing with “short man” when I didn’t say anything regarding height and not needing a certain height to help me?
@escapetcm Oh I wouldn’t want the help. If it’s offered then I’ll take it, but if it isn’t I’d handle it myself. My parents didn’t put me in boxing for 6 years for no reason, and truthfully I’ve been waiting to be able to use what I spent years honing
@escapetcm See this is why I’ve brang up race. You wouldn’t help someone who’s slandered you. Me as a black woman? Realistically I shouldn’t help and of the races of have slandered me, but I do because at the end of the day I enjoy helping people.
@escapetcm@theparkwbenson What is a “manlet”? It’s great that you proud of what you consider to be short.
You never responded to what height you consider short, so I wouldn’t be able to say if I considered that short or not
@escapetcm Now. I don’t need anyone to “sacrifice” themselves let alone come help me if I were being attacked. I can defend myself perfectly fine.
I mean… honestly? If a man’s wants to come protect me if I’m attacked then sure. But I’d love to beat tf out of someone who tries.
@escapetcm And that’s understandable. Don’t help people who slander you. I’ll agree with that. But not everyone is slandering them, there’s select groups who do
@escapetcm@theparkwbenson I’m asking you. You called yourself a “short man”. So I’m asking.
My “fellow” women, I don’t have fellow women. I have people in my own circle and that’s that.
@escapetcm Okay so women in general. If I was going to say that they couldn’t be protectors then I would have already said that.
I’m not “only saying” it now. At the end of the day, anyone can be a protector, just as anyone can be “weak”
@escapetcm If “short” men have opted out of helping, then that’s their choice. What were they helping with?
The thing is you’ve talked about women and height, then added that “tall” men have added onto it too
@escapetcm@theparkwbenson@nonblankslate “Emasculate”. If a man’s “manhood” is tied to his physical appearance, then I don’t know what to tell you. Masculinity is what you see it as, not how everyone else see’s it.
Also… I don’t consider other women to be my “sisters”, they are just other women.