To be a light woman, not impetuous, not fighting or grabbing, not caring about flashy things, not not pursuing, but not forcing. Live your life indifferently, don't be vigorous, just seek peace of mind.
Why do people work hard? The best answers I've ever seen are: Because the things I like are expensive, the places I want to go are far away, and the people I love are perfect.
Everyone should have their own ideals. They don't have to be tall, but they must do their best. On their own, they will never lose in life. Life is endless, progress is endless, don't be a person who is timid and stays in place.