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Purpose-driven;Building,Exploring & protecting what I love
@GossipMillNaija How much did they pay these idiots? When is Venezuela an islam country they protest for. They can't even protect for there own country, so that USA will help Nigeria too by doing the same.
This isn’t masculinity.
It’s prison guard cosplay for men who mistake control for love.
If your idea of leadership
requires obedience,
you’re not a protector.
You’re a warden.
A man who fears his woman’s ideas
doesn’t want a partner.
He wants a doll with a curfew.
“Strict men have good wives”
is what cowards say
when they can’t handle a woman with soul.
If your woman doesn’t laugh around you…
that’s not dominance.
That’s decay.
If you think friendship ruins the dynamic,
you were never strong enough to hold polarity.
You don’t sound like a king.
You sound like a tyrant
trying to pass insecurity off as wisdom.
Real power doesn’t fear disobedience.
It doesn’t install shame.
It doesn’t babysit autonomy.
It builds a temple
that no cage could ever match.
And watches her walk in freely.
Because she chose it.
Not because she had to.
Your job as a man is to protect your woman from the world, from her own stupid ideas and provide for her so other man can’t access her.
It’s not actually your job to be nice to her, make her laugh or be her friend.
Very much like a strict parent raises good kids.
Strict men have good wives.
If your woman won’t obey you? Skill issue.
All that friend crap the ends badly for the man and the woman.
@praisejohnn@OxBrainiac Hope you're the person doing the proposal and organising for the wedding too. You can't be doing nothing and crying about him kneeling down. If the Western way is a must for you, then you better relocate to Europe or America