I think i need to reframe my trauma from being "unlucky and overlooked" all the time to "severely fucking unsupported" vanessadezutter Genuinely so pissed that my childhood was wasted feeling nervous and perceptive when I should’ve been reckless and silly and carefree and giggly
We met for dinner Wednesday night after nearly a year of no-contact from our last fallout (where she accused me of gaslighting her - I genuinely have no idea why - so I just hung up and moved on with my life) and it went decently.