I think something missing from the discussion about A and J is that J is a trained professional. She's an LPCC. It's literally her JOB to not only be able to identify these behaviors but also identify the ways people hide them, which is WHY she's able to repeatedly pull this off.
I will say that as much as I am disappointed in how everything happened, I really am proud of Arthur to speaking up with his side of everything.
It's really not easy to share your story coming out of that kind of abuse.
since i want to move past this right now, first of all I'd like if everyone read through what he ended up posting and revealing to meg and kingmes and that you understand that while he messed up big time and hurt many of us he is still a victim of jamie's actions beacuse those
#she is sick and with all the evidence that’s coming out, i really hope and pray that the law eventually gets to her because she is actively working so hard to destroy other people’s lives. And for what? Attention? Grow up. She disgusts me.
i’m glad we have his side of the story. it’s good that he has not only apologized but also revealed the extent of how manipulative jamie is.
it doesnt absolve him from the mistakes he made however but i hope he does learn and grows from this
a thread on what arthur told me and wants to convey to fans:
+ this is a very nuanced situation where a lot of people got hurt and angry at each other. but i think we all need closure now so I will try to translate everything faithfully 🙏
@sunwoos_smize Danggg.. i think we all hoped that things would just go uphill and get better, but it didn’t. At least its not the complete end yet, so hopefully there’s still time for things to get at least a little better :(
I miss when i first started stanning tkd and it was realize era and they did a tour and everything was fine and dandy. What happened? Now this house ain’t a home😔
If this was happening in 2024 or 2025 he would've been kicked from the group already bc someone please tell me how Hwon got kicked for evidenceless rumours but Yunho gets to pull ts
a lot of u aren’t getting that no one cares about him dating or not its the fact that the article was published for the sole purpose of trying to tarnish his name and turn people against the group and by engaging with it it’s only going to spread and attract actual hate