Love is intentional. It’s not just something you feel. Not just something you say. Not just something you do. It’s something you practice. Over & over. None of us is great at love by human nature. Enduring love comes by Holy Spirit nurture. Day in, day out. We cannot give what we will not receive.
The biggest lie we're told is "be with someone who makes you happy." Nope. Happiness is something you create on your own. Be with someone who adds to it.