Betsy K

Using your imagination to change the world... even just the tiniest bit. My dream come true.

[Betsy K @BetsyK1014]

Back in court for my kids. Medical neglect, drugs, alcohol, vapes, emotional abuse, safety, suicidal thoughts, you name it. I get that we give the benefit of doubt and the chance for reform, but when do we say enough is enough.
#narcissisticex
#childcustody

[Betsy K @BetsyK1014]

Feeling Good.
That's the tweet.
Nina Simone.
Okay now, that's all I gotta say.

[Betsy K @BetsyK1014]

Happiness is having all three of my girls at home with me again. Peace is knowing they're going to school tomorrow.
He's on vacation with the girlfriend, and I'm milking this week with my kids for every drop of fun I can get.
#NarcisissticEx
#CustodyBattles

[Betsy K @BetsyK1014]

@MartinStellinga Exactly.

[Betsy K @BetsyK1014]

My girls deserve a father that treasures every second with them. My ex is asking to change to one overnight visit every other week. 4 months after threatening trial because he wanted 50/50.

#DivorcingaNarcissist
#Coparenting

[Betsy K @BetsyK1014]

Had a dream last night of the future I deserve. Holding tight to that image, won't settle for less.

[Betsy K @BetsyK1014]

It's actually happening. He is being held accountable. And by none other than me. He might actually listen to me, cuz the court will back me up. I set a boundary and he is pissed but has no choice but abide by it.

#FuckNarcissists
#narcississticabuse

[Betsy K @BetsyK1014]

#Narcissists can't love, they possess, control.
But their victims love, give up everything, make them more important than our own selves.

My heart just caught up to the idea that he's never ever really loved me. For 20 years.

[Betsy K @BetsyK1014]

Can't believe the new place has these growing by the front door. If I doubted myself, seeing these would have cinched it. Not the real thing, but still...

[Betsy K @BetsyK1014]

@MartinStellinga Thank you!!!
Makes me feel sad. For him. My offer was so much more than he deserved. Even his lawyer was surprised. Smh.

[Betsy K @BetsyK1014]

Pray or send positive vibes my way tomorrow all day. I've got a settlement meeting with the soon to be ex. I'm praying he sees what's really important.

[Joanne Davies @Joanne6d]

I know it is hard but please try to reach out. #domesticviolence

[Betsy K @BetsyK1014]

In one week he's taken me off the phone account, introduced our kids to his new girlfriend and refused to help clean out the house for the amazing cash offer we got on it.
I'm finding my anger.

#divorcinganarcissist
#postseparationabuse

[Betsy K @BetsyK1014]

New house, new start. Amazing how good it all feels.
Not one thing he can say about this place that can hurt me.

#divorcinganarcissist

[Betsy K @BetsyK1014]

He's not responded to a single message (kids schedule or medical stuff) since the report came out calling him all sorts of guilty. I'm torn between feeling relieved or worried about how he's going to hurt me next.
#postseparationabuse
#Narcissist

[Betsy K @BetsyK1014]

Validation. He is seen as he is. But they still want to give him my kids half the time. It's hard to see that as a win.
#narcissisticabuse
#Divorce

[Betsy K @BetsyK1014]

@ShinyObject_ Actions are more meaningful than words. So he said sorry, but is he really? See if he has actually done anything different. Mine said he quit drinking, but still did, said it was all for the kids but hid money from me who had to feed the kids. Actions show. Words can lie.

[Betsy K @BetsyK1014]

So there's this super important report filed with the courthouse that says whether he's the monster I said he was or it calls me a liar and sides with him. But I. Cant. See. It.

Until Monday.