When you admire qualities in people's character that are glaringly wicked, mischievous, cunning, fraudulent etc; I have clocked you.
Similar to when a thief is caught and instead of condemning the act you say, "The Thief is a Sharp guy e too get sense" 🤣 you're not different.
Beyond a shadow of doubt.
Stayed up watching full versions of both interviews. (I go too doze for work😭)
Not a fan of either men but on intelligence? Tinubu is way more intelligent than Peter Obi… It’s not even close.
We need to ask them what the problem really is because it's quite alarming.
I remember a situation where this one was barely 6months into his marriage and he was looking for relationship outside. When you are still supposed to be in your honeymoon phase Oga!
@creative_yua How do you make them feel sake ?
Make sure you are always available when they reach out& you have to consistently check in with them. When they are chatty &want to talk listen, always keep them up to date with what is happening in your life and ask them for theirs too.
These are the people expected to bring a change to the present reality of this Country?
Why not focus on the problem and leave the Victim alone for goodness sake.
IF you are surprised to find that the INEC chairman is completely bereft of integrity, then you have no knowledge whatsoever of the man who appointed him, or of the system that he serves..🇳🇬🤔
@UgoLagos Just reading comments, and I am shaking my head. You bring this trivial issue to social media for what exactly when you yourself know they can afford it, This issue can be easily resolved amongst the couple. You just want the fiancee to be shamed.
@ifetemini@yhubee001 Some men can't handle the fact that women can be self-sufficient.
How you handled the situation doesn't call for his not speaking to you after that. He just couldn't deal with the fact that you were not hopelessly waiting for him to come back.
I'll ground it in discernment, not titles.
Climbing a pulpit doesn’t confer calling, character, or competence. Certification aside, shepherding requires restraint, accountability, and proven fruit, not visibility. Scripture itself warns against confusing proximity to ministry with qualification, “By their fruits you shall know them.” Not by who they associate with, or where they stand on a Sunday or every other day.
Being a relationship counselor is a separate lane entirely. Counseling requires training, ethics, boundaries, and oversight. Ministry requires even more, spiritual maturity, self-control, humility, and a life that reflects the message. Hanging around ministers or being given a microphone doesn’t transform someone into a shepherd any more than standing in a garage makes someone a car. History is full of people who had access to sacred spaces but lacked sacred character.
In essence, title is cheap, fruit is not.
There's a platform that is working alongside the NHS UK to provide free online training on CARE.
https://t.co/VkljjSnCSh includes downloadable certificates after successfully completing quizzes & exams at the end of each training module.
After almost twenty years of sharing the gospel in India, I have lost count of how many of my Hindu friends, relatives, and strangers have said the same thing to me. They admit openly that the idols they bow before are not real gods. They know it. They say it without hesitation. It is spoken almost the way Westerns speak about Santa later in life. Not real, but useful. A noble lie they say. Something cultural. Something emotional. Something passed down.
Scripture already told us this would happen. Romans 1:18 to 23 exposes this. It is not ignorance. IT IS SUPPRESSION. The truth about God is known, yet deliberately pushed down. Not because the evidence is lacking, but because acknowledging the true God would demand repentance and surrender.
Men do not worship idols because they think stone has life. They worship idols because idols make no moral claims. They ask for rituals, not repentance. They accept offerings, not obedience. They comfort the conscience without confronting the heart.
This is why idolatry survives even when belief collapses. It is not faith that keeps it alive. It is fear of the living God. When the true God is removed, something must take His place. And so, men exchange the glory of the incorruptible God for images that demand nothing and change nothing.
And this is where we must be honest. This problem does not end outside Christianity. We have done the very same thing within it.
Many who call themselves Christians admit something similar, though they use different language. They do not deny Jesus, but they reshape Him. They speak of a Christ who never confronts, never warns, never judges. A Jesus who exists to comfort but never to command.
Just as idols are shaped to fit human desire, we have shaped our own version of Christ. A Jesus who affirms our choices, blesses our plans, and never speaks of repentance. A Jesus who saves without lordship and loves without holiness.
Scripture warns us about this. Paul says there will come a time when people will not endure sound teaching but will gather teachers to suit their own passions in 2 Timothy 4:3. That is not paganism entering the church. That is idolatry wearing Christian language.
Even superstition has found a place among us. Crosses are treated like charms, verses are repeated like spells, prayer is reduced to technique, and worship is shaped more by atmosphere than by truth. We anoint everything with oil as though the bottle holds power, sprinkle water as though holiness can be transferred by touch, and chase methods instead of repentance. Faith is measured by outcomes rather than obedience, by results rather than surrender. What was meant to draw us to Christ has been turned into ritual without reverence, practice without truth, religion without the fear of God. And in doing so, we unknowingly replace living faith with sacred habits that demand nothing from the heart.
This is not far from what Romans 1 describes. It is still an exchange. Not of stone this time, but of truth. We exchange the real Christ for a manageable one. A Jesus who asks for admiration but not surrender.
The tragedy is not that people reject Christ openly. It is that many worship a version of Him that does not exist. And a false Christ cannot save, no matter how sincerely He is spoken about.
The living God cannot be edited. He is not a symbol. He is not an idea. He is not safe. And until He is known as He truly is, even Christianity can become another form of idol worship.
Poju Oyemade will drop all the rhema,
Host a power packed lined up WOBEC conference
Election will reach, he will support a Drug Dealer & the worst candidate.
Guyman!
This is why I don’t take older African women’s advice on marriage
Look at the Labubu you married!
You married a loser!!
What do you know about making good choices when you have treated STDs 7 times in 2 months!!
Always remember that oyibos like this who are constantly recommending how you should behave are the mouthpieces of a society that got to where it is by farming your ancestors like catfish for free labour, using your entire continent as a plantation/resource ranch, and stealing credit for every human invention ever made by other societies and rewriting history to put themselves at the centre.
There is no rule they did not break. There is no moral code they did not violate. There is no 1 they didn't turn into a 0 in pursuit of WINNING. And now that they've won, their job is to carry their pointy noses in the air and pontificate about how you are wrong in whatever effort you are making to advance yourself because you are not showing "decorum" or adhering to one legal standard that they pulled out of their ass.
Oyibo na liar o!
If you want to win like him, do exactly what he did. Break every rule. Sign 100 treaties and violate 120. Take what is not yours and rewrite history to make it yours. Codify your greed into a religion and claim that everything you want including AFCON was promised to you 3,000 years ago, so it doesn't matter what you do to get it - after all it's already yours by right.
How you know you're doing the right thing in life as a Black African is when you see serious-faced, middle-aged oyibo men squealing and complaining.
Let that be your true north.
No gree for anybody!